The "bug" hit me later in life and I was already had 20+ years invested with my wife. There is no way I will let my CDing jepordise my marriage. When I came out to myself, I immediately came out to my wife. The first thin she asked me was if I planned to shave my legs. I said only if you don't have any issues with it. She said have at it and I never looked back. I wish she would have asked if I wanted to get my ears pierced...maybe one day.