If your non-accepting SO comes home, and you're in makeup and full dress, with no time to get changed, what do you do?
My wife has accepted that this is a part of me, but doesn't ever want to see me, which is fair enough - it's an image she'll never get our of her head.
It's gotten me thinking that should she return home unexpectedly for some reason, I should have some kind of plan that allows for me to respect her wishes of not seeing me.
My thoughts have been that I should have a change of clothes ready in the bathroom, along with makeup remover kit. If she returns home, I can then return to make mode for her.
(Oh for an accepting wife!)
Edit:
Whilst communication has improved, it's still a no-go topic for explicit discussion. She has commented about have I had a good time to myself etc, where the insinuation is that she assumes I have dressed.
She was texting me to say she was coming home, but this has started to dry up so I just want to be prepared so as to respect that she is being tolerant to a minor degree - we're still together, I still have my clothes, and we don't argue about it!
