I can appreciate the situation that you feel you are in with this. My thought would be to try dialing it back a little and see how it goes. We all agree that we enjoy wearing the types of clothes that we wear, whether in private or public. I am in agreement with everyone here in that if and when we quit/take a break from dressing that we eventually start to miss it and will start dressing again. So, try to dial it back a bit and see how that works for you.
Lacey