I'm a service tech, think construction, but I mainly do service.
Today I was at a customer's house all day doing an install.
I don't go inside , so it easy for me to keep my distance.
The lady is ok, a bit picky but not a problem. It's not what I'm doing but the carpenters. So I can tell she is very detail orientated.
I'm leaving staying good bye, thing.
She asks me if I'm a musician?
I have had this same question before.
I just brush it off by saying I use to play the sax. Yes it is true.
But you see I'm representing male wearing all women's clothing. I'm actually dressed the same as a woman doing my job.
A person who is detail oriented can pick up on it.
I could have just told her that I'm TG, it would have been the end of it. I'm out so it's not a thing.
It's more that it is none of her business. I know what it is, she's paranoid.
I don't normally ever go back. Pretty much every day is somewhere new. The factory shipped a broken part. It was a special order so it will be a few weeks before they send me back.
I think she is a good person just curious. I don't that she would ask again, but this time I may just tell her , simply that I'm TG.