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Thread: How do you manage your needs when there's no option to dress?

  1. #26
    Senior Member Pumped's Avatar
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    Aug 2013
    Back when my wife and I were DADT I would dress in the evening after she went to bed. She has always gone to bed an hour or two before me so it worked. She "caught" me once when she couldn't sleep and gave me a little grief. I told her if she didn't want to see me dressed then don't come looking for me! We have a family room in the lower level of our house, the bedroom is in the upper level. She had no reason to come down other than to see me.
    I will admit the DADT didn't last long.

  2. #27
    Aspiring Shopaholic BTWimRobin's Avatar
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    Apr 2019
    Hi Charlotte,

    My wife does seasonal work and I have been in a dressing drought since Christmas and I am looking forward to her returning to working the spring. While she know I dress and says I can wear whatever when she is around, I prefer not to fully dress in front of her. I find being a part of this community helps me cope with the fog. I find things like shaving my legs, wearing polish on my toes and keeping my nails nicely manicured to be very soothing. I also work on my feminine mannerisms. If all else fails, I immerse myself in a hobby.
    - Robin

    Because life is too short not to.

  3. #28
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    Mar 2016
    Basically by indulging in what may be referred to as "the elephant in the room" nudge, nudge, wink ,wink.

  4. #29
    Platinum Member Beverley Sims's Avatar
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    Nov 2011
    Lowestoft UK. Beverley was here.
    When I had that problem I used to find other interests to occupy my time.

    Going out with girls was a wonderful cure. :-)
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

  5. #30
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    Nov 2018
    I have been working from home for 3 years now and was dressing every day before my wife started to work from home... She does know I have a thing for womans cloths however, She does not know the extent that I still dress and I think she would not at all like the idea... However, A girl has needs and I love dressing when I can.

    So even though I love my wife working from home I cant wait till lock down ends in england and I am able to "closet dress" again... I do miss my skirts...

    in regards to managing it... I dont have the feeling to dress all the time. I just enjoy it when I can! I feel comfortable dressed more so than with dressed as a boy but as I am a hairy bear of a man and to be honest dont want to change that I just wait for the moments that I am able to enjoy my sexuality of being a non conforming man/woman gender.

  6. #31
    Member manemami's Avatar
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    Apr 2011
    pune india
    in my opinion you should talk to your wife and either get her acceptance to dress in front of her or in close doors with her permission ( this is what i do idress and take photos and watch them in front of her she just smiles and gives wink)
    I love to be in female attire and want to stay in it it as much time as possible.

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