We do not have Alexa but I am in a DADT marriage. About 2 years ago I was on my iPhone downstairs and my wife was on the Mac computer upstairs and it popped up with the site I was on, this one. I had not told her of this site or any similar one cause I knew she would not like it. Well it was quite the snot shower for me for a good long while.
She had known about my CD’ing but not the site.
I made sure it was disconnected from each other immediately.