It was a dress for me. In fact, I think it was a Prom dress.
It was a dress for me. In fact, I think it was a Prom dress.
It was pantyhose first for me, then the legendary little purple dress. Never even tried a skirt until the 90's (a shapeless green t-shirt material skirt). First real thrill was an elastic waist suit skirt I found around 2012 (almost too small to wear now). Mostly dresses.
Panties, then skirts.....then stockings....
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Hi Sara Lyn , Skirts & dresses came many years later, >Orchid**oo**
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Yes Sarah, miniskirts are my Schwachpunkt. Minirock means miniskirt in German. I love to see miniskirts on real girls. I love to see them on CDs. I love to wear them. I love what they do to legs of any shape or size. I love how they sit high on the waist. I love how they accentuate the backside. I love how they peek out from under a coat. I love how they accentuate the bust. I love how they exude confidence. I love how they require confidence. I love that they are immodest. I love that sexy little triangle they make with the legs when seated. I love the freedom of movement. I love the sun on my legs. I love the freezing cold on my legs. I love looking down at them. I love looking up them. I love what others might see. I love wearing little or nothing underneath them. I love when the light shines through them. I love to wear them with heels. I love the wind blowing up inside them. I love the wind lifting them. I love to photograph them. I love to buy them. I love imagining a hand working its way up a miniskirt clad leg. Oo-er missus!
Hi SaraLin, Yes for me it was defiantly skirts and dresses first. I longed to wear what girls wore and, when I was 8 or 9 that was skirts, dresses, long hair and hair decorations (bands, ribbons and so on). Vests and pants (British usage - not quite sure of American equivalent) seemed not much different except for a few frills.
Skirts weren't first for me, but they did quickly follow after I began sneaking into mom's closet when no one else was home. After I first tried on some pantyhose I really wanted to try on a skirt and heels. Unfortunately at that time my feet were already to big for her shoes, and she didn't really have any skirts that I could fit into either.
No, definitely lingerie was my gate way drug.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
Definitely skirts and dresses.
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Yes ma?am. Skirts & dresses first. I still often skip the panties.
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I liked girls first, then I liked their skirts. :-)
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Skirts and dresses all the way for me. I have never fancied bras and panties.
I started with skirts and dresses and then added lingerie and shoes (makeup and wigs came later)
Great question. I think it was playing dress up with my all female cousins that got me started. Plus I have an older sister that I looked up too. Such a long time ago, Basically it's been part of my life as far back as I can remember. Once I reached puberty it was panties and underwear for a while. Bur it started long before and will never leave me.
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Started with long fingernails followed by pretty shoes . Not necessarily heeled shoes, but pretty 🥿👠👡. I eventually got sustainable, long fingernails and had my lifetime's fill . Still like them on other people though!
My love of pretty shoes endures to this day!
So I loved the shoes first, but acquired pantyhose and skirts first. Skirts made out of re-purposed or specifically-bought t-shirts and vests ( I spent a LOT of time sewing as a young teen ).
Never been mega on panties. I wear plain women's briefs daily nowadays, but to look at them, you wouldn't think they were women's . They're just plain and black - they could be passed off as men's if you cut off the label . I don't even think about them being women's anymore when I put them on now, but that was very important when it began it as a desperate grasp for something extra when things got a little tough.
Ironically when I dress, I use tightened extra small male briefs to hold the tuck and then layers of padded shapewear on top. A necessity rather than an indulgence.
- L.
I started being interested in looking at bras in magazines but my first experience wearing anything was when I was about 12. There was a contest at the park for the best costume. I asked my mother for help. She helped alright,LOL. I was dressed in pantyhose, stuffed bra,waitress outfit (similar to the show about the two broke girls), high heel boots, and a wig. I assume makeup but don't recall. My sisters clothes fit me perfectly. I won first place and the guys there were totally interested. They did not know it was me but wanted to get to.
That was my start. When I came out to my wife, we went out and bought a black outfit that included everything from panties to skirt and blouse. I can't say enough about my wife, she is great about my CDing.
Thanks everyone for your responses! while I'm still within the minority (within a minority), at least I know I'm not alone.
I think that for me, at least, the initial appeal was wanting to LOOK like the girl I wanted to be - and not so much the feel - though that's definitely nice too.
Yes me. Ot was skirts that got my cjrio9a.d ultimatly what I wore first. They will for ever be my first and probably last love. Last count there were 98 in the closet after getting rid of almost 20. And since I have purchased at least 20 more.
Garter belt and stockings. then bra and skirts. love them as much today
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From the earliest years of my life my mom wore the prettiest dresses. When I found out what you got to wear under the dress I was hooked for life. I've always admired my mom's fashions.
I started with hosiery and panties
For me full slips and dresses came about the same time.
Slips and dresses were all I cared about and that expanded to include skirts and half slips. Then came nylon nightgowns. The last thing was panties and bras for me.
Yes, when I was about 10 I found a bag of my sister's old clothes in my wardrobe. It was a brightly colored Rara skirt and immediately I wanted to try it on. That was my CD genesis I guess, although it took another 33 years to fully embrace it, along with an amazing wife.
Hi SarahLin, Pantyhose followed by a dress and I was hooked.