Page 3 of 3 FirstFirst 123
Results 51 to 51 of 51

Thread: Lies & SO

  1. #51
    Aspiring Member DianeT's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2017
    Location
    France
    Posts
    789
    Steffi, I don't think you need to be a mind reader. Right after the extract you just quoted, I gave an example: cheating on your wife. Anyone can "omit" this piece of information to a SO if it happens, but can one honestly sustain that it's not lying? It seems a stretch to pretend that one could know so little about the person s/he is living with that s/he couldn't think of anything the SO would want to be informed about. If one really needs a crystal ball for that, I suppose s/he could as well live with a stranger.

    And another thing about this thread: we are mostly talking about the characterization of omission vs. lying, this was after all Susan's initial question. Nobody is telling anyone what to do in one's life. I think people get mixed with the two. It seems to go this way: if you tell me it's not an omission but a lie, then you are telling me I am a bad person. As far as I am concerned I don't. I am just asking fellow members to own the fact that some omissions are equivalent to lies in the SO's perspective, and that it doesn't take rocket science to figure out which ones are important. Then one does what s/he wants.

    -- EDIT --
    I know the "cheating on wife" example will trigger some. There are of course all levels of omissions that would be considered lies by a SO. Cheating is just an obvious example.
    Last edited by DianeT; 03-16-2021 at 02:42 AM.

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State