I was talking about this in my last therapy session, how I come here for support and leave feeling so inadequate. He asked me what I would do if my wife didn?t act as gatekeeper and prevent me from dressing. My reply is that I would shop online and catch up with my missing wardrobe and dress whenever I could. My posts occasionally get kind of testy and that is probably at the root of it. The frustration meter is spiked at the extreme level and the opportunity level is a whisker over zero. That causes extreme anxiety and frustration. My can do cannot keep up with my want to or perhaps it is more like must do.