Krisi,
At the moment I'm safeguarding my children's inheritance , I was in a fortunate situation when I separated from my wife that we split everything 50-50 , ( no not the clothes , although she did dump some of her rubbish on me which I found out when I unpacked my clothes after the move .) We both bought homes and as I moved to an area where properties don't cost as much I was able to be a property to ear a rental income , so beween us our children and grandchildren won't lose out .
I must admit I could no longer live with that suppression in my life so no secrets anymore and no worries about neighbours , I chose to tell all my neighbours to nip the tittle tattle in the bud . OK just to make the point again it's also not a hobby to me it's my life .