(Background, we're in DADT, she's never seen me dressed, and possibly doesn't know about my wig)

I was sat with my wife as she was doing hair and makeup at her (secretly our!) dressing table. She was complaining about the condition of her hair, which has lost some of the pregnancy volume and is, in her words, thin and lifeless.

She didn't want to just scrap her hair back, and I suggested a way of parting the hair, and then pulling the sides back to keep them out of her face. Hard to explain to be honest, so I just did it for her.

She didn't appear to think anything of how I would know to style long hair.



I can't be alone in helping out an oblivious SO. It's funny to me how she doesn't like that I am on the trans spectrum, and yet benefits from it more often than she realises.