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Thread: What happens as we older CDers get more aged, frail, need more care?

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    Vicky (#24) , you raise so many issues in your statement of your relationship. Everyone is going to die someday. I wonder what your wife is going to say IF your (and I mean the plural) secret gets out. I would hope your wife and my wife would say ask anyone if this new found knowledge has altered their perception of us. Would a wife get on the pity pot and cry "Woe is me?" Or would our wives come to our defense? I think your wife needs to be educated on what cross dressing is all about. Some on this site proclaim it is a "hobby." To me wearing the clothing and somewhat emulating a woman is NOT a hobby. A wife needs to understand that. That does not mean she is compelled to engage in it. You use the term "conservative" which indicates to me a person is not educated when it comes to transgender issues. For a wife to confront and accept some premises of transgender issues it can really rock her boat. I cannot raise religious issues on this site, but, it does come down to confronting some core beliefs.

    If you're going to see a transgender therapist you should take your wife along.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Star01 View Post
    To put it bluntly when the time comes where someone has to bath, dress and feed me it won?t matter how I am dressed. At that point I will have lost my independence and the future will not be a source of optimism.
    However true, I'm not sure I wanted to read that. Roll on the heart attack tending the garden aged 90+

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