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    Overcoming Fears!

    Well i did it!!! i went outside into the public eye!! Thank you all for helping me with self confidence and reminding me to take it one step at time.

    The day started off with me jumping out of bed as soon as the wife left for work. I rushed into the bathroom took a shower, shaved myself and applied a little bit of makeup. Already knowing in my head what I wanted to wear I changed in to my outfit, looked at myself in the mirror and had to change the top to blend in with the crowd more easily. Taking a deep breathe I went out the door got into the pickup and took off towards town(which is a hour drive). First stop was the lingerie/sex store, walking in the lady gave me a complement right off the bat saying my hair was cute and that she liked it. After buying some lingerie I went to Walmart which seemed like a cake walk because NO ONE cared about me doing me!! I bought a bathing suit and some sandals to wear out sunbathing later at the house. Over all the trip was an amazing success and self confidence booster thank you gals for letting me ramble a bit about my experience and for all the good ideas to get over the fear of going out!! I'm officially addicted to it now!!!
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    Wonderful Jen. As you said, no one really cares and it can be very addicting.

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    Good job! Nice outfit for your adventure too! Nothing special, typical woman out shopping.

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    What happened when you got home?
    Put on a Happy Face.

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    Wonderful story Jen congratulations.
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    Jen,

    While out shopping don't forget thift stores, lots on new merchandise there.

    Davina

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    Welcome to the world.
    It's fun and it's free...enjoy yourself.
    Wear what makes you feel Confident !

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    SOunds like you had a great da

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    And next time? you will go out as though it's a walk in the park!!! well done, good luck for the future!!!
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    That's great, I wish I could go out like you. I have a Mustache, and Bandages on my legs.
    I do under dress and wear Fem Jeans, but I always dream of going out dressed.

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    Congratulations, Jen!

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    So glad it worked out well for you!
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    Great job girl! You just took an amazing step. Not so bad huh??

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    Congrats! Shopping on your first outing is pretty impressive. I made sure I wouldn't have to open my mouth.

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    The avatar? Yeah, that's definitely FaceApp. Incognito, right?

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    Enjoy the freedom to be the person you feel you are. Congratulations.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AndieB View Post
    Great job girl! You just took an amazing step. Not so bad huh??
    I wouldn't be able to talk, low voice would give it away, if they didn't notice the bald head and beard! ;-)

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    Jen, well done for taking that step, thats amazing.
    I couldnt do it myself.
    Just out of interest does your wife know?

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    Great post so happy for you.(you did it ) I'm sure there is many more adventures heading your way.
    have fun Connie

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    Congratulations its small steps that lead to bigger things. You get more and ore comfortable as time goes on. Enjoy

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    Hi Jen , No Tar & Feathers and no Pitch forks, That was amazing, >Orchid**00**
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