I was discussing with my counsellor earlier about how i've had zero LGBT exposure in my life beyond that of books and forums like this one.

She suggested perhaps I should make more of an effort, and maybe it'll be positive for me.

I countered that if I spend more time with the LGBT community, it'll legitimise my feelings and act as an echo chamber, therefore making me resent my Wife more for her stance of not wanting me to dress, and being uncomfortable with my transgender feelings.

I wondered what others think, and I ask that here because I think that the MTF Crossdressing section will potentially have a different set of responses to the trans section.

Thoughts?