I started dressing 10 or 12 years ago, just as a major 5 year crisis in my marriage was coming to an end. I was surprised when the idea and urge to came and then increased over the last decade or so. I have zero interest in being a woman, but I find a sense of self and a sense of peace when I can spend time in items from the other side of the aisle. I'm not sure I could ever be content with DADT and am fortunate that she has adapted reasonably well, with a few days of drama here and there.

I'm wondering if anyone else can relate the urge to dress with a traumatic period in their lives.