I've referred several times to my struggles with finding a good pair of shoes. First issue: size. My feet are men's size 11 wide, combined with low (if any) arches. I might fit a women's 12, but more likely a 13. Second: While I'm comfortably closeted, it still rules out having anything arriving by mail (any package coming to me is a great source of curiosity in my household). Third: Budget -- I have little discretionary funds available. A $20 investment isn't readily done. Fourth: I have only one resale shop in my usual travels, not much in my size. My collection of shoes ranged of either not fitting well, or not looking or feeling the way I want.
That said, last week I found time and funds to stop at the local shop on the chance they might have something. I first spotted a pair of gray heels size 13, but I seriously think 4 inch stiletto heels at my stage would be asking for ankle injury. Then I found a pair of wedges, 3 inch or so, in size 12 with a strap in back. They fit more comfortably than anything I have.
The point I'm slowly getting to is this: I got to dress today (pictures coming in another day or two) and it felt amazing. I didn't have to concentrate on how I walked, it just happened. I felt so much more feminine than I had the last couple times. I even took some video and noticed a marked improvement of my movement, carriage, etc. I had done a reasonable job of make-up, but it all felt so good. I am even imagining a means of getting out and about. All from a pair of second hand shoes.
Just felt so good I wanted to share.
Geena