Came out this morning to find my wife wearing my pullover. No thought of it being wierd, just was comfy and handy. I thought, if I had on her bra or body suit, there would be a BIG discussion.
So WHY the difference? The only thing it can be is that our society looks at the feminine as somehow "Less"
Woman dresses like man? Upgrade.
Man dress like woman? Downgrade.
Why would you want to be societally LESS.