Results 1 to 11 of 11

Thread: Comment my wife again

  1. #1
    Fun Member Natalie5004's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2020
    Location
    Central California
    Posts
    784

    Comment my wife again

    Seems like I am getting braver all the time. Maybe bolder is a better term for it.

    Spoke to my wife while she was at work today. She mentioned that she was not coming home at lunch to ride her bicycle. I told her that it is a good thing she didn't because I am looking extra cute today.

    She knew exactly what I meant by that and she laughed.

    We are having a guest soon for a few days before me and the guest take off for a 10 motorcycle ride to the BMW rally in Montana. She told me that I would have to move all of my clothes out of that closet. We are discussing Natalie wardrobe here. Everything is out in the open. The only thing left is for her to see Natalie. I hope that happens some day.

    We both agreed that I am crazy.

  2. #2
    Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2020
    Posts
    196
    Happy for you Natalie sounds like your getting closer to the big reveal you lucky girl!

  3. #3
    Member
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Posts
    1,257
    Quote Originally Posted by Natalie5004 View Post
    She told me that I would have to move all of my clothes out of that closet. We are discussing Natalie wardrobe here. Everything is out in the open. The only thing left is for her to see Natalie. I hope that happens some day.
    I'm confused. I hope you're not saying she is saying all of your Natalie clothes have to disappear??

  4. #4
    Gold Member alwayshave's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2011
    Location
    Washington, DC
    Posts
    8,610
    Natalie, If shes laughing, everything is OK.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

  5. #5
    Connie Connie D50's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Southeast WI.
    Posts
    1,728
    Natalie sounds like she might be getting better with your dressing. Be careful not to rush, better to go slow so you don't take one step closer to take two steps back. Connie

  6. #6
    Junior Member Tanya J's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    60
    I agree with Connie. Its wonderful that she is accepting more of this, but please always try to be careful. I think that the longer I have been out to my wife the more I understand how this can affect a spouse. The wife's that are willing to keep a open dialogue are outstanding partners. We are usually so desperate to share ourselves to someone that we sometimes forget the taxing effects that this could have on our marriage. Hug her and appreciate the sacrifice she makes to allow this into your relationship.

  7. #7
    Exploring NEPA now Cheryl T's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    NEPA
    Posts
    9,060
    We used to have a "code" like that at first.
    I would tell her we "had company" if I was going to be dressed when she came home from work.

    That progressed and now not a word is spoken, it's all become just natural.
    Wear what makes you feel Confident !

  8. #8
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Oct 2010
    Location
    Western Washington
    Posts
    12,251
    I read an article on another forum that indicated most wives have a preconceived image of what their husbands may look like even if there has not been an in-person presentation. It suggested those images are not easily, or if ever, removed from memory. I think a lot of the marital problems have some root with the wife being able to cope with her insecurities. Other wives seem to just think, "It's his thing."

    Since your clothes are visible to her she probably has some idea of your taste in fashions. Sometimes I wonder if a wife will freak out and start laughing her ass off. In a DADT marriage I think it is wise for a wife to give her husband a heads up before coming home unexpectedly. My wife does not drive due to depth perception problem (hit by a car at twelve years old) so she is a bus rider. Pre-covid she'd always call and give me a heads up to what bus she was taking home. Most of the time it was not femme time. I think she was always terrified to walk in on me.

    Natalie, let your wife make the choice....no surprises.

  9. #9
    Fun Member Natalie5004's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2020
    Location
    Central California
    Posts
    784
    I agree with all. Yes she has seen my wardrobe choices. She does not agree with some if not all of them. I told her that I could use her help making choices. Forget it was the last response.
    No I do not have to get ride of them, just move them when we have a house guest for the weekend.
    I store my clothes in our guest bedroom closet.

  10. #10
    Senior Member Pumped's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Posts
    1,765
    Quote Originally Posted by Natalie5004 View Post
    We are having a guest soon for a few days before me and the guest take off for a 10 motorcycle ride to the BMW rally in Montana.
    Hey! A fellow, oops! A sister BMW rider! I was planning on the rally in MT this year, but stuff gets in the way. Have a great trip!

    Sooo, are you going to ride dressed? ;-)

  11. #11
    Fun Member Natalie5004's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2020
    Location
    Central California
    Posts
    784
    NOPE.

    I do not think the two hobbies mix very well.

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State