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    Lessons Learned

    Being on this path now for 5+ years, these are some of the things I have learned: https://www.kandis-land.com/things-i-have-learned/
    Visit Kandi's Land (http://www.kandis-land.com/) daily! Nothing but positive and uplifting posts!

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    Well done!

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    Great post Kandi

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    Hi Kandi , Truly words to live by, >Orchid**OO**
    Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......

    I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !

    If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.

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    Hi Kandi, great points! Thank you posting.
    "It is so easy to exist, instead of live. Unless you know there is a clock ticking."
    --Anna Quindlen, writer, journalist, columnist

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    Excellent post. Thanks for sharing.

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    When I read your posts or this piece, it seems that you, the author is a woman.

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    Thank you for those Truths Kandi!

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    Kandi,

    Many thanks for sharing your lessons learned. So many excellent points.

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    Great Inspiration Kandi thanks for those words of wisdom and learned experiences. They are all true.
    Teri Ray Rural Idaho Girl.

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    Kandi,

    You are one amazing women, thank you...

    Davina

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    Wonderful list. I think you did very well in describing how it works. Virtually nothing I would change and with a few exceptions it would apply to FTM as well as MTF. The main point I got from it is "Be yourself. Avoid stereotypes in your expression."

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    Couple points I agree with whole heartedly;

    "PANDEMICS SUCK!" Couldn't have said it better myself.

    "Stop the Ladies room Selfies". Another pet peeve of mine. I have never thought that was appropriate, especially at the work place. I've voiced my opinion which went over like a lead brick. Maybe you'll have more luck..........don't bet on it.

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    Great advice. I recommend that anyone considering going out dressed read this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SheriM View Post
    When I read your posts or this piece, it seems that you, the author is a woman.
    That comment, among many very sweet comments, brought the tears (good ones)!

    This place will always be the place where Kandi was born and will always be home.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GracieRose View Post
    Great advice. I recommend that anyone considering going out dressed read this.
    What Kandi is saying is quit considering doing it and just start doing it.

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    Kandi,

    I had to laugh about the bathroom selfies - so true. Anyhow, nice post. Thanks.

    Sandi

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    Excellent words Kandi - quite a few of those put a smile on my face - so much so my wife wanted to know what I was reading (she thought it was great)

    Thank you for sharing!

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