I told my sister about Joyce over the phone about 13 or so years ago. She now lives next door to me. But I don't think she remembers the conversation as it was over the phone and there was a lot of things going on at the time.
She's over 70 now.
I think she will be ok but until it's out there... you all know what the challenges are.
I have to tell her because we are planning a trip for the family reunion in the motorhome and we can't leave her in Florida. I really don't want to be in full male mode for the entire week. It is my vacation too! It may only be a nightgown every night. Who knows but I feel I need to have a choice.