Well... I?m 99.9 percent sure my neighbor knows now.

[kellyanne]

I have never seen an upside to friends, neighbors or employing knowing my private life so a suit & tie or casual weekend wear is all they get.

The few times going out en femme or after I went out or after dressing left too much perfume on the looks were negative.

Its still pretty conservative here.

[RachelB.]

We recently moved into a new neighborhood. we didn't know anyone so I decided that it was a good time to step up the game. I regularly come and go dressed. I walk everyday in the neighborhood (often with my wife), and work in the yard dressed. I have met a few neighbors, some as him and some as her, but no one has commented. I find I am more diligent about my daily walks when I am dressed.

[ellbee]

If you go out, chances are that the neighbors will see you sooner or later. They just may not care.

Yep, pretty much.


I've moved around a lot in my life (though definitely slowing down as I age )...

And at least some neighbors have *always* seen me out & about while in a variety of gender-expression.

Only two negative but brief experiences during all that time. Both men under 50.


Otherwise, older people, along with GG's & even kids, at least, really don't care.

They may not necessarily love it, but possibly aside from a bit of an unexpected moment? Typically they're just like, Meh, whatever. You do you?


I stopped caring about this with neighbors long ago. Life is too short.

Don't let it stop you!

[XemmaX]

if you go outside eventually your neighbours are going to see you. i reckon my neighbours know but i also dont care if they know and so should you. it's a part of who you are no need to hide.