Every CD goes through a stage like this. Uncertain about how we will be received and fearful of every negative outcome, from sideways glances to assault or arrest. It is only by going through the retail process a few times that we realize that nothing bad happens. The reality is that nobody cares. Strike that. There are tons of female sales associates who don’t just tolerate crossdressers, they ENJOY helping us. Yes, that's right, enjoy. There are too many possible reasons to explore why they do. But my advice to you is to walk into a store you think repr your style, find an SA and be prepared with your first question which could be, "Do you have dresses in (my size)". Accept gratefully all suggestions she gives, try on anything she suggests and have fun.