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    sophomoric member Xenia's Avatar
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    Outed myself....so far, so good

    My wonderful, amazing unicorn of a girlfriend and I had just finished getting dolled up for our outing to a drag show at a local club last night, and as we were waiting for our Uber, I decided that the time was right.

    I had her snap some pictures, chose my favorites, and posted them to my FB page without comment.

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    It wasn't the first time I'd posted a pic en femme, but the only previous time was a couple Halloweens ago when we went to see Rocky Horror and I got to wear a cute little French maid outfit. Definitely felt like a bit of a milestone to show folks that, yep, this is what I look like on a random Saturday in July.

    And just like that, my circle of "people who know" jumped from fewer than ten to several hundred.

    By coincidence, just the night before I had posted a pic of myself in a nice suit and bowtie for a fundraiser dinner I had attended (commenting that it had been the first time I'd worn a suit in about five years). I'm happy to report that my girl picture has gotten significantly more Likes than my boy picture. :-)

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    Hi Xenia,

    Congratulations on coming out! Posting your pics on your Facebook is such a brave thing to do, but I'm glad you've got a positive reception for them!

    You do look lovely, so I'm not surprised you've got so many likes!

    Congratulations again!
    Reconnecting with my feminine side - and just enjoying each day!

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    Hi Xenia , That is awesome, You are out there and there is no turning back now, >Orchid**OO**
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    You look great. Love the outfit. I'm coming out gradually. Wearing my leggings (which I usually do) along with a set of nails today.

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    What a lovely GF that are supportive, love how your makeup and outfit look. Maybe the pattern pantyhose is a bit too much for my taste.

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    Wow. That?s brave and sounds like such a relief. And nice make-up.

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    Xenia,

    I agree that is a WOW thing to do. You look great though so it will be interesting to see how everyone responds over time.

    I am pretty daring myself but no where near ready to do something that bold. Good for you to be so brave.

    Sandi

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    I can understand the surge in "likes." What's there not to like? The head shot is amazing. I'd rather be caught in a pretty dress than a bow tie.

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    Great look Xenia!
    I particularly like the make up.
    Well done for getting out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sandi Beech View Post
    Xenia,

    I agree that is a WOW thing to do. You look great though so it will be interesting to see how everyone responds over time.

    I am pretty daring myself but no where near ready to do something that bold. Good for you to be so brave.

    Sandi
    What she said 1,000 times over.

    I would love to be so bold as you but I can't see that happening.

    But I certainly admire the audacity of the move, and it will be interesting for you the feedback you get going forward.

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    The only reason I'm not doing what you did is because I closed my FB account. No, really. This is the only reason. Pretty pretty really. Really really.

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    (But seriously, kudos for this, you rock.)

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    Wow! You look amazing. Beautiful makeup and outfit.
    Thank you for sharing with us this moment.

    You deserve our maximum respect!

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    Omg! You look amazing! Love your look.
    Using my young kid lingo to describe an attractive girl to a friend, "she's a babe!"
    Hope you had a fun filled evening.
    So I like dressing like girl. BIG DEAL!

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    Congratulations! It?s a big step taken, now enjoy you.

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