Yesterday I went to a friend's pool party. Let me explain that while I'm not full time I'm pretty darn close. I call it full personal time if that makes sense. Not a working girl but most people at work are figuring it out. Fortunately I'm near New York city so things are pretty accepting. Most of my friends only know Genifer, like all the people at this party.
This very attractive girl shows up at the party. she's very well-dressed. She's also tall which I really like. For some reason I just kept being drawn to her and I wasn't sure why. The party went on as normal and that was that or so I thought. Now it's getting into the early morning hours. the last few people are sitting around a table still having some drinks. And suddenly it clicks why I kept being drawn to her. A quick check with my friend as to what her occupation is confirmed she is my cousin's ex-wife. How random is that? Not like there's much more I can hide at this point so I made a comment that made it obvious and we both had a good laugh about it. Then she proceeded to tell me my friend whose house we're at is dating another cousins ex. How random is that? It was interesting that until that moment she had not made the connection who I was. Made for an interesting evening. Just got to laugh at what a small world we live in and the connections that crossover between friends.
. But what I really enjoyed about your experience is being able to mingle with a presumably diverse people comfortably. I have been mostly home-bound since the advent of covid, and miss just being in a crowd, whether strangers or friends. I also rather enjoyed the occasional experience of sorta passing and being able to comfortably acknowledge my transgender nature.
Originally Posted by Genifer Teal
