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    Aspiring Member krissy's Avatar
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    Who still owns their first self bought clothes

    I still have my first dress i bought cant fit in it but i still have it.also my first bra and panty and garter set dont fit either .lol but i still love them .

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    Those are long gone. I have never not had female clothes around but I do know the first self bought things have been gotten rid of along with many other things. I have actually just pulled about 40 items out if the closet to get rid of. This is a clean out not a purge by any stretch just way to many things. And for those not familiar with my story. I thought everything in there was from female side but I did find a couple of male things that are also going away. This doesn't include the couple of jerseys I have.

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    All my pretty lacy bras end up in the Sally Army collection bin!

    I am amazed how quickly my cup size is increasing. I have blown through the A cup, and for a while now, I have been holding onto a B cup for my plunge bras.

    I bought a couple of multi-way bras in C cup, and I am starting to fill them too, although I thought that full cup C would offer much more volume than a push-up in B.

    If I can fill an underwired, unpadded plunge bra in C cup, I don't mind purging my collection once again!

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    My first lace panties and convertible bras turned out to be excellent choices and great values. Most of them are still being worn, though they're approaching retirement age. The dress I bought with them was much too small though (I had yet to decode women's sizing), so it has long since been donated.

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    Haha, not a chance, that was 40 years and several purges ago
    my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress

    "Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"

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    First bra, panties and garter were also 40 years. First dress over 25?. I really have nothing in my wardrobe older than 7 or 8 years. Except for a paid of 20 year old pumps.

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    Nope. My last official purge was in 2018 if I remember correctly. I did have a Lark and Ro dress that fit me, but it made me look huge, so I got rid of it. I wish I could get most of my previously purged things back.

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    Krissy,

    After a few moments thought I'd have to say no. Early on definitely on a learning curve as to what did and didn't suit me and getting to develop a sense of style. I suppose a lot of it was driven by it looked good on the model but then not necessarily good on me. Limited storage space also meant a policy of one in, one out which has also kept my wardrobe current. I do still have some shoes that go back a fair way though.
    Who dares wears Get in, get out without being noticed

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    I bought my first Bra from Janets Closet along with my first forms. Still have them and soo broken in, I just wave my arms and they jump right up into place !
    Joanne

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    The first items I bought would be over 60 years old now But LOOONG Gone Now.
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    My first bra and matching thong from Victoria's Secret. Yup still have them. I treat and treasure them like a trophy. They were my very first in-person purchase.

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    I still have a couple from 40 years ago but they're not my first.
    "This is ME" I am not CRAZY, I'm just a GUY who likes dresses!
    Since allot of men dress up in woman's clothing that makes it a manly thing to do!
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    I purged so no more. Only I can refresh my memory from my old photos.
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    No, I lived a very nomadic existence in my early twenties. One year I moved seven times in a year. I have a toolbox and a few tools from those days but nothing else, male or female.
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    I purged my first purchased clothes, although I still have the 'cast offs' I found around the house. The clothes I purged were worth purging, I only wish I hadn't purged all the pictures of them, too.

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    Still have the first pair of tights I bought maybe 30 to 40 years ago. Just My Size 5x or 6x. I was 325 lbs back then. Now I'm more of a svelte 180, and I have more choices.

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    I had no idea what size I'd be in the pre-google-pre-yahoo-pre-Ask Jeeves era so the first things I got were comically missized. The shoes I kept as long as I could but they didn't make it anywhere near the 35-40 years they'd have needed to to make it to 2021.

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    Denise,

    Congrads, on the 180, I know I'm gone from 240 to 175 and kept it off for 4 years that is slow and steady......

    Davina

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    When I told my wife about the dressing she didn't want me strengthening her stuff and we were going to go out a few days later. To hold me over she gave me one of her bras that I still have only because it was such a emotional thing for me that she give me something fem. I also have the first bra she bought for me, for some reassure she selected red.
    I don't even know how I wore the bra she gave me, she was a DD before her breast reduction and I sometimes show her that bra and she doesn't even believe it was hers. I just can't seam to let them go.

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    No, not a chance.
    They went the way of my first purge some ... many, many years ago.
    There are some things I wish I still had and hadn't tossed in one of those fateful fits. Some might even still fit me today but they are long gone.
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    I still have a pink peignoir set and still wear that I bought in 1972. My wife several years ago was cleaning out the back of the closet and told me I could have any of the soon to be donated nightgowns. She knew I had worn her Avian white peignoir set one night which lead to the purchase of the pink peignoir. I knew nothing of women's sizes when I bought it for her in 1971. I bought a medium which swam on her, but, still fits me although the arm holes are a little tight. So, that's two vintage nighties from 1971-1972.

    I have never purged anything out of disgust or self loathing. I have donated some early dress purchases that did not fit properly. That's why I still have 162 dresses.

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    Yes I still have the first lace bra I ever bought myself. The panties I bought with it, at Dingles in Plymouth, are long gone along with the store. I very seldom ware it, but I am happy I still have it. It brings back some happy memories of my youth.

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    I'm pretty sure I have the first items bought for myself. I know I have the first couple of dresses I bought online and I've got a lot of the early in store purchases, but I've culled a few times and not sure if I have the very first items. My access to clothes that truly fit my taste and my wife's tolerance/acceptance has improved so I wear mostly later purchases.

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    I still have the first 2 bras I bought myself at age 10 That was the age I was finally allowed to ride my bike out of the neighborhood. I rode my bike up to Kmart about 2 miles away and bought my first bra, but it didn't give me the size boobs I wanted, so I rode my bike there again, and bought a bigger bra. It did give me the size boobs I wanted.
    In case you're asking yourself what? They were/are padded bras. In my young ignorance, I thought that's how girls got their boobs.
    To this day, I don't know how they survived my Mom's finding my stashes and throwing away my stuff.
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    I still have the black boots with 3 1/2" heels I purchased and wore 40 years ago as part of a Halloween costume. My first time out dressed. More amazingly they still fit. But, like many of those who posted above, all my other early purchases are long gone either through a purge or recognizing they no longer fit or match my current image.

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