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    Out of everything women wear, which piece of clothing makes you feel most feminine?

    There are lots of things that women wear which bring out my feminine side, but there are a couple of things which stand out to me that really make me feel feminine more than anything. What do you guys think makes you feel feminine more?
    For me, its a bra. The reason why is because bras are made for women, and when you think bra, you automatically think "woman". I love the feeling of a bra as it gently wraps around you in a gentle hug. But the thing about a bra that makes me feel so feminine more than anything else is the fact that it looks and feels as if I have breasts. When I see a woman wearing a sexy bra staring back at me through the mirror, I really feel good about my feminine self. Oh, and the color of a bra that really turns on my feminine side is black. I consider black to be very sexy and seductive, and since my goal is to try and look sexy, black does that for me. Other colors such as white bring out my feminine side in a different way, because white is supposed to make a lady seem pure and innocent.
    If there was something else I could choose besides a bra, I'd have to go with a panty. Wearing the pretty or sexy underwear they get to wear brings out my feminine side as well. Not to mention that having a matching panty to go with that new bra really makes you look good.

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    Good question. I stealth dress almost every day and I like wearing v-neck tops a lot. I underdress too and that makes me very femme.

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    I'm a man. I like being a man. I also love wearing women's clothing. It's my way to show honor, respect and solidarity with them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Denice View Post
    My shirts that button on the left
    Yes, that "different feeling" of anything female is always enjoyable. I've always felt that a "shirt" that buttons on the left should be called a "blouse," which adds to the feeling.

    After pondering the main question, which made me want to wax poetic, I have to go with the vast majority here. The Bra takes the prize!

    It's a hard decision, because so many items of women's clothing evoke that glorious feeling of femininity. In spite of this, each piece can only contribute to the whole in its own limited way. I feel delightfully feminine in a boldly colorful sundress, but it's part of an entire outfit, and I must be in women's underwear to make it complete. The intimate eroticism of silky, lacy panties goes without saying. Likewise the exquisite sensation of legs stroked through nylons, so that even pants feel tinglingly different when worn over pantyhose. A pretty blouse. The openness and loose swish of a skirt flowing around the knees. The delicacy of a slip underneath. A full-length slip is outstandingly feminine, from the thin straps over bare shoulders to the swell of the breasts, outlining the curves of the body all the way down in smooth silkiness. The tightness of a girdle, suggestive of "bondage," enhances the feeling of vulnerability underneath. High heeled shoes, besides their elegance, are also a discipline, forcing the legs and body into a more feminine stance. All these things, including the brush of long hair, have their charms, and a bra alone would be nothing without other clothes.

    However, the bra, besides being a uniquely feminine garment, probably contributes more to the overall feeling of femininity than any other. Despite the sexiness of panties and nylons--favorites with so many for other reasons--you can easily forget you're wearing panties or nylons, or even a skirt. You can forget you're wearing heels if you're sitting down. But it's hard to forget you're wearing a bra. It's a constant reminder of feeling feminine. The squeeze of a bra around the bosom is lilke the hug of a girdle--but who wears a girdle all the time? So in that way the bra "stands in" for the absent girdle. The bra straps over bare shoulders have a similar feel to the straps of a full-length slip or sundress, but we don't wear those all the time either, and besides, bra straps are firmer, so that we usually stay aware of them. Sometimes they slip down, to remind us they're there. Most of all, the bra pushes the breasts forward, offering them in a tempting display, reminding us of our newly female shape.

    While the bra can "stand in" for certain other clothes, other clothes would never be the same without the bra. A blouse, a dress, or a full-length slip would never have that shapely bulge without a bra underneath. And a sweater, say, just "feels different" when it's put on over a bra, with the contrast between the clothed breasts and the bare skin around.

    The bra is essential to femininity, but it's indispensable to the crossdresser, because... well, without a bra (and something to fill it), what would we look like? The bra also seems like the "great companion" to everything else. Bra and blouse. Or pose, half undressed, in bra and panties. In bra and girdle. In bra and half-slip. In bra and skirt. In bra and shorts. A bra and anything else seem to "go together like a horse and carriage," in the words of an old song (no matter how outdated).

    Putting on a bra is like "crossing the Rubicon" between masculinity and femininity. A man may wear a dress or skirt, or "underdress" in panties, and still profess masculinity. At times I can sit around at home casually dressed in nothing but a skirt and panties, with a little slip underneath, and in a way I just "feel comfortable" without really thinking "what gender am I presenting as right now?" It doesn't seem to matter. But sometimes the feeling steals over me: "I need a bra!" Once I've got that bra on, I'm definitely "Lori," and naturally a blouse follows, typically with a few other accessories to enhance the feeling of femininity. The lure of the bra, and the effect of the bra, certainly does that for me!

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    Heels!
    I will often put them on first while I pick out the rest of the outfit.
    I am a huge fan of the bra, but so much of my experience starts with the heels.

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    I agree with Lori. And, I want to acknowledge her vivid and thoughtful analysis and descriptions.
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    I can't say feels feminine but girdle, stockings and slip surely makes me feel great, with all the other clothes of course.

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    hello RainbowDash,
    It has to be a bra. I could possibly explain my wearing tights (pantyhose) and vest tops by saying that they keep we warm in winter; I can explain that women's panties are more comfortable than men's underpants; I could explain that a skirt will keep me cool in the summer. But a bra is so non-masculine that wearing one can mean only one thing!
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    Bras - the band pinches, the straps slide off and I need to constantly adjust them, and to get the proper shape, I have to fill them with something besides myself.
    I'm with the GG's on this one - bras are a (necessary?) nuisance.

    Panties - I wear them all the time. they're just my undies... no big deal any more.

    If *I* want to feel my feminine-est (if that even is a word), a dress or blouse/skirt combo does it for me.
    After that, I'd say it's a tie between wig and makeup. Both are a bit of a hassle, but I feel much more feminine with them.

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    Everything is a mental fill good to me. I like myself when I dress out. I went out to o. Haven't tried makeup for a long time. Can't afford it now. I tell you what I wouldn't disturb a woman when getting the look they want cause it can be a chore. Ha!!!!! I'm an indoor lady again but under dress to. So when I dress it's everything feminism.

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    I agree with every bit of that statement. I love wearing panties and hose, skirts and dresses but the bra is the best. It's always there with that special hug that reminds you what you have on, especially with breast forms adding some weight and jiggle.

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    As much as I love leggings I have to agree that a bra is what brings out the female in me.

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    A bra, but it has to contain boobs even if they are ones I bought.
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    Pantyhose, bra, panties and a slip and dress.
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    I?m with Crissy on this one -garterbelt and stockings . I would say corset is a close second.
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    For me it will have to be nylon stockings which feel amazing and make almost anybody's legs look great. I just dont get why most of my generation has stopped wearing them because if I was a GG I would wear them a lot. Or so i believe lol.

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    bra , panties, slip, and a nightie for me

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    Without a doubt, for me it's a bra.

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    I previously voted for the bra, but now it's the bustier!

    The combination of the deep multi-hook band, so deliciously difficult to fasten, the aggressive boning & underwires, the uplift and the sheer femininity of it, is so enchanting.

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    I wouldn't be Lacy PJs if the things that make me feel most feminine weren't... lacy PJs and nightgowns!

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    Quote Originally Posted by valerie anne View Post
    I previously voted for the bra, but now it's the bustier!

    The combination of the deep multi-hook band, so deliciously difficult to fasten, the aggressive boning & underwires, the uplift and the sheer femininity of it, is so enchanting.
    🤔 I was between a bra and heels but since I got my S Cups I can?t find a bra that fits for a decent price. But a bustier!!! That would be amazing, I?d spend some money to fit into one of those!

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    bra for me.

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    In order?Panties, bra, sometimes hose.

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    I love corsets, they really ?do it? for me. Don?t really know why, but I feel very feminine wearing them. Then, I would place miniskirts and minidresses in 2nd and 3rd.

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    Garter Belt and Hose. Add the Bra with push ups for cleavage.

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