Tiffany - Yes, I did indeed follow up with a discussion of her other issues. We've had a great marriage, but we'd both been stressed by many other things (not the least of which is avoiding the new covid variant), so we hadn't really talked very much for a few weeks, each doing our own thing in different parts of the house and not going out together very much. So the air was cleared and we're both making an effort to spend more time together. Thanks for your thoughtful comments and advice!