I participate in a few groups that make a point of trying to be inclusive when holding Zoom meetings. They are urging folks to list their preferred pronouns so that people can respectfully refer to each other, acknowledging their gender ID. But I have a bit of an issue with this, as I don't feel like declaring to the world how I truly would like to be referred to. I usually say I have no preference. In fact, what I'd like to say is that it depends on how I'm presenting. When I dress, I like to be referred to as she/her, and when I'm in drab mode, it seems more appropriate to refer to me as he/him. In truth, though, I'd rather dress 24/7 and always be referred to has she/her, but that's not practical. Anyone else face this quandary?
Grace
