I've just returned from 27 nights away with the SO touring Wales in our caravan. Not a stitch of femme wear for the entire time and I have to say I didn't miss dressing. I guess that's partly down to being engaged in the holiday but also I've learned over the years to compartmentalise sections of my life. I know for the time I'm away I can't dress so why waste time thinking about it. Holiday's end and hence normal service can be resumed.

It might be different if I were to be in a situation others find themselves in, in that they may not have an end in sight and so non dressing stretches out like an endless road ahead.

I did find myself when out exploring towns looking in shop windows at women's clothing and thinking things such as, "I like that dress/skirt/top" and filing it away for a time when I can shop enfemme and hope it's still on the rails. Who knows, by then it might be on the sale rack?