When I see something I like, I just buy it.
As far as what lesbians think, well they're just like anyone else, some don't care, some are accepting, some are supportive; the three gay women I've known, and got to know pretty well, all were supportive of me, kept my secret (as I kept theirs, as I met them all at work and they weren't out). But they all believed that I was just gay and in denial, and 'should try being gay'.