This is so sad that we have to hide who we are.
I'm not sure but I think for most of us, that if we told our wife's (to be) that most of us would still be single.
My wife has dug in every conner of our basement looking for my stash and made a mess and found nothing.
My doctor gave me a shoot for short for covid-19 but said there's no short to cure cross-dressing. LOL