I've read several threads on the forum in which some revealed they'd had prostate cancer and treatment, enough to believe my question has relevance to our community.
Impotence leads to awkwardness and avoidance of intimacy over time which a spouse can misinterpret as loss of interest and desire for her. Oddly enough the confession of crossdressing for decades opens everything for reconsideration possibly in a good way.
I would love some responses here or PMs if you feel uncomfortable on a thread - how have you (and your partner) dealt with altered sexual function (things not working the same after) following surgery/radiation/hormone therapy? I'm aware of all the medical interventions to repair the lost function but let's assume they didn't work...
I've re-written this a couple of times to avoid TMI (LOL).
TIA! - Camilla