Hiya Erika,
Married here for 49.5 years. Been through hiding my desire to dress for 30 years, moved to DADT and now in a supportive posture with my wife. I can say that having my wifes support, being able to discuss my feelings with my wife and finding boundaries we both agree on has been great. Much better than the hiding and self loathing I once had. I am among the lucky people on this site. Best wishes to you and welcome to this great forum.
