Every Xmas, my SO searchs for the presents she had received during the year (also from previous years) which she didn't like and didn't use, in order to give them to other family members and friends to save some bucks.
This time, there were some purses, ear rings and a couple of other feminine things over the bed that I'd love to have and wear. But no, many of them were assigned to a name other than Tam. I hate our DADT.