I guess in most relationships the longer together the more you keep learning about each other. I've been noticing my wife making comments about when I'm dressed half and half. It seems when Im wearing pantyhose under my jeans in guy mood with my feet showing its OK, but add the pink fluffy slippers and she'll make a comment. Wearing a bra underdressing out not noticeable is fine, but add the breast forms or padded bra and she doesn't like it. Starting December police do spot checks for drucken drivers due to the holidays. My last few drives out my wife warned me about this because I usally leave the house underdressed as much as possible and when coming home I will undress slowly as I approach home. She asked me not to get caught in a spot check half undressed and maybe to stay dressed all the way home and change in the garage. I asked her why she was telling me this and she said instead of being seen half dressed I would look more awkward and more of a freak, but dressed either way I will present myself as a man or present myself as a women. She was even asking me to show her how I was dressed and what I was wearing before going out to make sure I was dressed desent in case I got trapped in one of those spot checks. I then thought I would test the waters a little more and ask her how she feels about my shaved body, if she sees me less masculine and if that bothered her. She told me at first it seemed weird but now she prefers me shaved and she has never seen me non masculine ever. I told her how amazing it is how we both have changed, I used to wear only a slip and pantyhose most of the time when I first told her and we were both ok with it. Now she doesn't like me half dressed and I can't dress without my wig or being complete. It interest me having these conversations with her its always seems like a learning curve and how it takes different detours along the way. I now learned when she wants her man she wants a man and when I'm dressed she's fine with that to as long as I'm fully dressed and present as a women. I guess no more half and half