I have not seen this discussed on this forum, but I wanted to report that since my wife and I have agreed to experiment with a wife led marriage, about one year now, things have gone much, much better between us. She still does not allow me to fully dress in her presence, but I am in panties 24/7, fem pajamas, and some other feminine accommodations. We are both happier. There is more openness and no arguing :-).

This type of marriage, for us, seems to have reduced some of the tension we formerly had with our semi-DADT arrangement. I know it would not work for all, but so far, I love it!

If anyone is seriously interested in more details about how this works, please feel free to PM me, and especially do so if you also are in a WLM or FLR. Nancy