It is a (100%) LGBT club, that have been to several times in the past, conservatively dressed. For some reason, I just like the feel, and look of the men'ss jacket, in that it adds a bit of "roughness" to an otherwise sexy outfit, at least in my mind, and that is what I am trying to satisfy. Something about the delicate hose on my legs, against the faux leather leggings, along with the sexy nylon/lace bodysuit against the leather jacket with a nylon scarf around my neck, all black of course. I am not trying to pass, and don't really care, as this time, I just want to dress for me. I always go conservative, this time I'd like to dress my fantasy. I'd also like to wear 3" high heels that just have several sexy straps across my feet, but with wearing black or off black hose, my guess is that's a no no, so I'll prob wear the booties. I do have a very nice pair of pointed toe leather boots with a 2.5inch heel that come up just below my knees, but I seem to pointed toe boots with pointed heel are out of style???