I don't have a Heather persona. The only thing that changes is what I'm wearing. If I were 100% cross dressed and had the outward appearance of a woman, I'd still be my wife's husband and want to be that person. If she ever wanted to go out shopping with Heather, I would gladly go but I'd have to become a good actor to pass as Heather. The mannerisms and voice just wouldn't/couldn't come naturally.