status update

[pedalgirl]

It has been about 6 months since my last post where I explained my loss of desire to dress. It is now a little over 1 year since I last dressed. At this point in time I have no interest in dressing or crossdressing in general. I still do not know why I just suddenly lost all interest. It has been suggested that it was triggered by my issue with Prostate cancer which I am completely cured of now. I have finally completely purged all of my female items with no guilt. It is hard to believe that I had so much stuff, which filled 45 50gal. bags. At this point in my life I pray the pink fog will not return, but no one ever really knows for sure. I do not know how much I will be visiting the site but would like each and every one of you to know how nice it is to have many friends on this site to turn to with problems and to wish each of you the best of luck on your journey.

[Heather76]

I'm too new here to have seen your posts of 6 months ago and longer. Having had prostate cancer in 2007 and having had my prostate removed, I'm not sure there would be a connection to your loss of desire to crossdress. However, we all respond differently to our various health issues so it is certainly possible. I just started crossdressing in June of 2020 and hope my desire never wanes. I love wearing all these feminine garments. Good luck to you regardless of which direction you go. Just be the best you that you can be.

[Laura912]

In an attempt to give you a chuckle, “You’ll be baaack.”

[rhonda]

I want to wish the very best , as a member of crossdressers.com you'll always be a crossdresser weather you are active or not Good luck to you

[Stephanie47]

Pedalgirl, I wish you well. Sometimes a life experience give you a new outlook on life. Maybe, for some the same life experience would have the opposite effect.

[kimdl93]

I do hope you are free from whatever may have motivated you. If I had any advice, it would be to avoid visiting this or other sites that pertain to crossdressing, in the odd chance that such continuing connections might work against your expressed wish that this desire not return. Best of luck!

[AngelaYVR]

I for one would be very downtrodden if it went away as it has been a force for good in my life.

[Crissy 107]

I suppressed this side of me for a long time and a little over 8 years ago it came back very strong. Maybe it is possible that this is in your past and it will never return but I feel the odds are against that.
Good luck with whatever you do in the future

[Geena75]

It is good to remember that there are more important things in life than cross dressing. For some folk, those things are enough to living a fulfilled life. I wish you just that -- a happy and fulfilled life. If you ever feel the need to dress up again, that's good, the site is here for you. If not, it's still all good.

[docrobbysherry]

I wonder, Pedalgirl, if u may miss the joys of dressing that u once enjoyed?

[Karren H]

Strange enough, I have been diagnosed with prostate cancer and I have not felt like dressing this last week! Do not know if it the feeling like I need to focus on more important things right now or get my affairs in order. But it is a strange coincidence that you bring this up. Any who, good luck on you journey, no mater where it takes you.

[April Rose]

Karren and pedalgirl I wish you both the best of luck. Life has a way of throwing us curves. Sometimes the best you can do is hang on and try to make it around without crashing.

[missjoann49]

Wishing you well and the same to you Karen. Any form of cancer is no fun whether you are male or female
Best wishes to you both

[Debbie Denier]

Good luck Pedalgirl and you too Karren. My friends father had prostate cancer and lived until he was aged 91.This was many years after diagnosis .There is always hope. CD is fun but when life is not fun CD does not matter.

[ziggie]

Best of luck, Pedalgirl, whatever the future might bring you.

[Kris Burton]

Hi pedalgirl. I am glad your prostate cancer is cured, that's your primary goal. I went back and read your other post on this matter, and it would seem mentally you are in the same place. I do hope that you have not made a hasty decision (even though it has been a year)to purge and end your crossdressing activities...if I may be so bold, have you found your activities of a sexual nature diminished as well? I do hope you talked to your oncologist about all this, because it has been my understanding that loss of sexual desire/function can be related to prostate cancer surgery or treatments, and it can and does return. I mention this because that has been my personal experience. It took about a year as well.

Whatever the case, I am glad you are well. If you find your condition is permanent, all the best to you of course. And, if you find you want to return, you know where we are.

All the best,
Kris

[char GG]

The OP hasn't been on the site since she posted this thread. Closed