The other night I was rubbing my wife's feet and I told her I think I deserve to put on my bra and night gown to bed, she said sure just keep rubbing. I did just that before going to bed, no problems she even snuggled up to me. Yeah! The next day, Dee Dee came full on makeup, dress, hose and bra. After a few failed attempts at both my hair and makeup I finally got it. She's never really minded the dressing part but always hated my heavy handed makeup but I nailed it yesterday. I waited for her to come home in full femme mode and she never batted an eye. She had a bad day and needed a hug, with no hesitation she put her head on my chest between my fake boobs and I just held her for about 5 minutes. Knowing it was trash day, I told her I would clean up "remove makeup and dress" and she replied just throw on some sweat pants and jacket no need to take it all off. Amazed as I was I did just that. She allowed me to go outside of the house with all my makeup and curled hair. Soon as I was finished I pulled off the baggy clothes off and returned to DeeDee. She made a couple of adjustments to my dress and said you look nice. The rest of the evening I stayed fully femme and even slipped back into my night gown with bra, no problem! Needless to say she was treated like a QUEEN! I took a huge risk but I've listened to everything she has said. Makeup was fabulous, all my lines were straight and accessories were intact as should be, I even had a compliment on my walk as well. Today I went full male mode and she asked why? Beyond belief, I replied you need your man more than I need DeeDee, which I received another huge hug. Yay . I think in her case, it's an insult to her female side that a man trying to be feminine. I found my style and owned it! She even said, you look happy! I can't even express my gratitude.