My friends son asked if I could play with them Friday night because there other guitarist wasn't around. Trust me I'm not a great guitar player and I don't criticize any form of music but they are a heavy metal band and there literary 3 power chords in every song. I helped them out once before but there so much younger and the environment is crazy in those places and I just felt out of place. I told him I would let him know but if they could find someone else. My wife asking why I don't want to go and help them out, I'm surprised she was even asking that question last time I played with them my wife came to watch she had to leave after the first song because she was getting shoved and grabbed and punched. My wife asked why not take this opportunity to dress up after all the others dress crazy. She pointed out that my friends son last time was wearing a long leather skirt and big black boots, and the bass player was definitely wearing leggings with a women's heel ankle boot and the other guitarist had ripped silk pants and was wearing some form of tights or pantyhose showing where the ripes were and they all wear purple lipstick. She said this would be a perfect opportunity to wear some sleazy things like my short black dress with stockings showing and my long black boots and I would definitely fit in dressed like that and to trust her nobody we know will be in a venue like that. Wow sounds like a dream and that's probably as far as that's going to be and I told her I don't know if that's the look the band wants. She convinced me to call and ask how they felt if I dressed like that. Sooo, I called him and explained last time I felt out of place playing with them and my wife suggested I have some fun with it and maybe dress in black maybe black leather short dress,black stockings and high boots and what he felt about it. He answered something like " that would be crazy" but he said it with excitement so I asked is that good or bad I'm not really in with there lingo. He apologized and said no that would be great the crazier the better. I told him I would let him know and again to get someone else if possible. As much as I would love to do this I don't know if I could do it, not even the thought of playing in front of all those crazy kids but to be dressed in front of my friends son and his friends and maybe my friend will come watch and who I see all the time. I'm just wondering if anyone else would do it
Originally Posted by fiona de wilde
