During the Christmas holidays my wife wanted me to pick up a big heavy oak wood armour at her mothers house. I didn't understand why she wanted that big bulky wood cabnet that took me 4 hours to take apart and carry it up the stairs and another 4 hours to but it back together. I never said anything to her but I was dying to ask her why she made me pick up that cabinet and its been sitting empty for 3 months in our spare bedroom.
Yesterday my wife had the day off and when I came home from work she asked me to go into the spare room, I went in and found it was all cleaned up and there was some new furniture in there. She asked me to open the cabinet and there was most of my dresses and slips hanging in there. I was confused and asked her to explain. She told me to gather all my fem stuff that I have mixed in everywhere with my male things and put it all in the cabinet so all my stuff is in one place. She showed me the night stand with a mirror she bought and a leather chair so I could get dressed comfortable and she bought one of those ballerina dolls with hooks that I could hang some of my jewelry. I stood there confused and asked her how could we just leave stuff hanging out like this, our daughters are the most nosiness people and was she planning on locking the door to the room. She answered me that we should never lock anything, even though that cabinet had lock and key for the doors putting a lock on anything makes things more for someone to be interested in or more suspicious. She told me to put everything in a net manner and maybe hide the wig and heels to the back and if they should go in there even though they really would have no reason to but in case they do we will deal with it then, but for now why don't I just gather my things and fix it up the way I want it and just enjoy it.
I grabbed my wife and gave her the biggest hug that I almost suffocated her, I asked her if she was sure about this, she of course why else would she have made me bring in that heavy cabinet. I sat in the chair in disbelief and just tears running down my face and my wife asking me why I was so emotional it really isn't a big deal. I have told her of my past and the bumpy road I drove on full of different emotions, anger and confusion but most of all the big question of why me. I told her to that her it's not a big deal but to me this is larger then life and that no matter what I would do for her could never repay for not what she did but even just the thought of her doing this for me. The tears wouldn't stop falling and I guess she must of felt my emotions with tears now running down her face and sat next to me and said that it must have been tough. I told her the day I told her I thought and wouldn't have blamed her if she left me but I never would have thought she was going to be so accepting and save my life from making something I thought was so bad and her making it fun and seeing it in a positive way. She said to me that I don't understand what its like to have a husband to share so much in common with and how much she enjoys shopping and sharing with me, almost like having a live in best friend.
She got up and told me to stop with the emotions and let's start moving my stuff in, well that ended pretty fast with a phone call from our daughter that the power in her area was out and was informed it was going to be out all night. So the whole family dogs and all came over and slept over last night and I'm going to have to wait another day to move in.
