I have been coming here for years. I am not one that has posted much but I have read every post here. Tonight, I was exploded. Having been married for 48 years, my wife executed Cheri. We dated thru high school and college. During college she found out about Cheri. No problem. After college we got married. Even on honeymoon, she painted my nails and put mascara on me. After that for the next 48 years, she purchased 90% of my clothes, shoes and make up. She was so supportive. Even this past weekend I dressed fully to the max. No complaints. Then tonight, BANG. She unloaded on me. Said she never approved. I was far from being normal. I was blown backwards. I ask why now? Why now? Why tell me now? After all you have done, you seemed supportive. Now you shoot me down? I am at a lost. A part of me, a huge part of me, no longer exist. I guess Cheri will cease to exist. Thanks for letting vent.