I saw K today when I rode my bike (the pedal kind, not the motor kind) to their house to drop off the gift card and Michelle's contact info. We talked for a few minutes, I showed her a couple pictures from my outing yesterday. I told her about this thread, and she promised to keep it a secret. I told her what I wrote, that if she learned anything from me that helped her deal better with their child, it was worth it. She said it has already.
I also added that she go with a mani-pedi and pamper herself and she said she was looking forward to it.