Stimulated by more than ten years of perusing this amazing forum, I've come to the conclusion that there are few human activities that come in so many different forms and varieties as crossdressing. I'm convinced that not only does each member of this community have a completely unique DNA, but that we also each have a unique "CDNA". Consider the following:
Some of us routinely pass and dress freely in the outside world; others only go en femme to "safe " places; still others underdress and fear (or hope) that someone will get "a glimpse of stocking" under their drab wear; others never venture out of the bedroom in any female attire.
Our relationships vary widely. Some have fully-participating SOs who support and nurture their efforts; others are in DADT situations, some of which have as many rules as the game of golf; and unfortunately a few have had relationships destroyed by their practices.
There are, of course, many more dimensions in which we have variations. I won't attempt to articulate them all.
Despite these differences, we're bonded by the overarching similarities we share, most notably that we're all fascinated by our feminine sides. This bond is so strong that our differences don't divide and polarize us, as so many topics (e.g., politics) do these days. Whereas discussions on other kinds of forum often quickly descend into arguments and name calling, dialogues here are respectful of our differences. Rather than divide us, they expand our understanding of the condition we all experience in different ways. And this results in people being able to express the most intimate and personal feelings they have in a supportive environment.
I find this extraordinary, and I commend both the contributors and providers of this forum for making it a truly wondrous place in which to discuss a truly wondrous activity.