It would be highly unethical to conceal that information. Frankly, I think it would be unethical even to attend such an event under false pretenses.
It would be highly unethical to conceal that information. Frankly, I think it would be unethical even to attend such an event under false pretenses.
"Google" and check out the "gay panic defense." I agree with Kim.
Right...it does not seem to make sense for a male, no matter how passable, to go to a vanilla dating event en femme. It would appear the individual has other motives in mind, and would probably be interpreted that way by other men at the event. There are other events where you could attend en femme more appropriately. This scenario is not only unethical but is asking for trouble. I would hope this situation is not something that happens very often.
Last edited by Kris Burton; 04-22-2022 at 08:51 PM.
"vanilla dating event", Speed dating? The guys need to know.
Hmm. Good question.
Going to an event as you describe for just a social outing you could be excused for keeping your CD side quiet.
With the addition of alcohol any sign of the male wanting to hook up would have to be avoided or it could get ugly were you to reveal who you really are.
Philippa Jane
What Kim Said.
For a man to go to a hetero-based vanilla normal dating event as a woman is deception, pure and simple. If I were at such an event looking for a woman, and I took home a man by mistake, there would very likely be violence before the night was up. If I met a woman at the same event who immediately told me she was really a he, I'd ask what the **** are you doing here?!? And I'm sympathetic to the cause, so just imagine the reactions of "normal" men.
Hey!, I was not trying to play with their feelings!, There was a bowling event I just went to play and to see how the other people would react or if I could fool some of them, but was not looking to start anything romantic/sexual with anyone. I don't see the need to reveal my "secret" unless somebody showed real interest in me, in that case I have no problem in telling the guy that I was not born a girl, and if for some reason he insists I just tell him that I am not interested in him. That's all, no drama.
So, now that the the jury is in and the purpetrator has revealed herself (See #32 below), we need to decide the appropriate punishment to be meted out. I think a spanking is warranted. Of course, with any really naughty girl like Valerie, there will need to be an element of humiliation for the punishment to sink in so let's spank her in public in a very short skirt. What do you say girls?Originally Posted by Valery L
I never attended a party where people were not aware of my situation.
That way others would search me out and engage in conversation for their entertainment and mine also.
Sometimes I would wind up with a partner, usually a girl and other times not.
Other guests always knew who I was and that I was not gay.
I did leave a party with a male escort on occasions but it was with a group and the poor guy only went because he could not find a girl.
On these occasions I did not mind being second best. :-)
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