...to not say what you want to say.
Yesterday my wife and I made a quick trip to the beach for a family photo op. When we arrived, the first person we both see is a young (20s - early 30s) gal with a great figure sporting a nice black bikini. My wife gave me a hard time for looking at her (a guy would have to be blind not to be looking). Anyway, I told her I was really just looking at the bikini to get some fashion ideas. What I wanted to say was I look at most every woman trying to understand women's fashions a bit better so I can do a better job of dressing.
On the way home from the beach (only a 5 minute drive) she mentioned a couple of friends with whom she wanted to call to arrange a girls' shopping trip. My instant thought was I ask if I could join them so they could help me pick out some items. Again, I kept that though to myself. I envy those girls with partners who encourage and support their CD activities.