Heather (#15), My recommendation (#13) may seem to be "hard line" but it is in response to a hard line. Like you, my wife is not appreciative of my cross dressing and express the desire to be excluded from it. She also said, if I wanted to join a support group, that was alright with her. I looked, but, none was near in the early 1980's. Her response was one of sanity and not like Judy's wife, who has drawn the line in the sand. Does a marriage like that become one of continuous hostility and based on only economic security. Live like brother and sister?
