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    Senior Member Sandi Beech's Avatar
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    Hot chick in a hot car

    Well sort of. I was in Mississippi again this past week, and National was out of rental cars. The first one that became available at my turn was a Maroon Dodge Challenger. So?when I went clubbing last Thursday and Friday, I figured I better play the part of a hot looking girl in a hot car ; )

    Thursday night was not going to be busy so I toned it down a bit but did have on on a short black skirt. I should have skipped going out that night. On the way to the club, I drove into a raging thunderstorm, and GPS sent me on a road with construction hazards. Add to that poor visibility and deep water. When I got there, only 5 people were at the club and they were not all that sociable. Even so, I did talk to my bartender a lot regarding my last visit when I danced topless. He planned to work Friday night as well and said if anyone did complain, he would let me know; otherwise, not to worry about it as long as I had a cover up available.

    So Friday night came and there was an even worse thunderstorm but it cleared before I headed to the club. I decided to wear the same gold miniskirt I wore previously but with some modifications. I wore an unusual neck accessory which actually looks even better than the picture:

    https://www.amazon.com/Eternity-J-Pr...s%2C176&sr=8-3

    I got the last parking spot in the lot, so I knew it was going to be busy. The woman checking IDs at the door was very nice to me as she remembered me from before. After our little chat I walked in and was immediately chatted up by a young black woman who liked my attire. I got my beer and headed over to the dance floor where Karaoke was in progress. When a good dance song was played, maybe 10 to 15 would hit the dance floor.

    I ended up hitting the dance floor when the group became sizable and went topless again which I really enjoy. Some had their backs to me and it was fairly dark. One woman pointed at me and the girls with her turned around to dance with me. They seemed to love it, but I sat down and covered up at the end of one song. So far so good.


    Later, a group of three young women were working the dance pole. Do women practice this stuff? I mean where did they learn to run and spin and hang upside down like that. I sensed they were kind of a wild bunch, so after they were done with the pole I did a little topless pole dance myself but without the acrobatics. I covered up and pranced over to the three because I noticed they were watching me. I said - do you like my outfit. They definitely did as one of them gave me a high five. After a quick chat one of them says ?selfies?. So the three of them took multiple pictures of us together. I took my top so they could get more selfies and OMG they took some pictures with their hands on my chest. What is really crazy, I offered to buy them drinks and they said they were not old enough. Holy cow. 18 - 20 year old women wanting selfies with me? Sometimes I think we are just a novelty. Who knows, but I bet our picture is on someone?s Facebook page.

    I headed to the outside back porch to talk to another young woman who was in a goth outfit. I wanted to show her info about The Castle in Tampa. She and a couple of her friends asked me a lot of questions as they were very curious about pronouns and whether I had implants or not. Apparently that confirms that my seams are well camouflaged and my efforts are effective - 3 hours of dressing prep time.

    Later I talked with a woman I met while waiting at the restroom who was interested in me. I think she identifies as non binary and dresses as both male and female. We talked a long time as well as she was very supportive.

    Afterwards I was switching to water at the bar and while I was standing a group of two men and one woman turned around from the bar to talk to me. I asked if they had seen me dancing in the room next door and I showed them my my shawl was open. They wanted to know how much my forms cost, and I told them about the different types I have and how these were not as soft as others. I said you can touch them if you want to see what I mean. I was kind of surprised that the woman and one man not only touched them but massaged them simultaneously for some time. I suddenly became a bit self conscience at that moment, but they stopped about then. Totally crazy. I also got some hugs out of it.

    I figured I had enough thrills for the evening and decided to head out. I probably will not keep doing the topless dancing, but the number of compliments received that night was very flattering for an old guy just out to have some dancing fun. It was really amazing getting so much attention. It was a really fun night overall with a lot of friendly interactions.

    I am sorry I did not bump into Kimberly A. as we seem to keep passing like two ship in the night.

    Sorry - no pictures.

    Headed to Florida soon ; )

    Sandi

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    What a blast. The imagination runs wild, but I think a pic or two would be in order. Not necessarily the topless variety, just maybe the outfit and the venue to enhance where I'm going in my mind ! Would you be more comfortable with an alternative pic site, flickr or whatever?

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    I love reading about your adventures Sandi but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around the fact that this was in Mississippi. There are many places in the U.S. where I would not want to go out en femme and Mississippi is probably #1 on that list. You've got balls of steel, great big balls of steel.

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    Kris

    It was just the same thing I wore last time that was in this post:

    https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...n-Mississippi-)

    The only difference was that I added the neck accessory which I got from Amazon.

    I wanted to wear that outfit again because when using the hip and butt pads with that skirt it is definitely a hot look. I do not usually wear the same thing at the same club.


    Fiona , yes I have to admit it is not the best state for the clubbing scene. Florida is a lot better, and I am going back there soon. Sometimes you have to go with what you have, and occasionally, you will be pleasantly surprised in places you would not expect.

    Sandi

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    I agree with Fiona! Maybe P Town or NYC but Mississippi? Unbelievable! Like I do believe you but it is just amazing!

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    Thanks Karren. I do have a few pictures to prove I was there but will not be posting. I wish I had gotten that selfie with the girls. What a riot they were.

    All I know is that I dress to impress when I am clubbing. Birds of a feather tend to hang out with each other so I typically end up hanging with the girls in the shortest skirts etc. We all love the attention. I am literally hooked on it, and I know they like it as well.

    Sandi

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    Sandi, I am in awe

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    Sandi, sounds like a good time. A little wild, the couple touching your forms.
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    Jamie,

    Right well this might sound kind of weird, but depending on the context I might not like it. In this situation I was ok with it. If a drunk just walked up to me and grabbed them, I would not like it. In the context of how it came up, I was fine with it. I have had both men and women ask to touch them before under various discussions. I can usually sense if they are genuinely curious about them, or just being a jerk. That makes a big difference to me.

    Sandi
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    The world is changing. I have had lots of fun being out dressed and partying in some rather backwards or, to say the least, conservative places. I have also been randomly heckled a handful of times in very progressive and accepting cities. For the most part, people keep to themselves and are respectful if not indifferent. I have actually struck up some great conversations in small town bars full of angry-looking farmers and bikers, all while wearing skinny jeans and stilettos. Still haven't made it to Mississippi!

    Quote Originally Posted by Fiona_44 View Post
    I love reading about your adventures Sandi but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around the fact that this was in Mississippi. There are many places in the U.S. where I would not want to go out en femme and Mississippi is probably #1 on that list. You've got balls of steel, great big balls of steel.

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    Hey don't put down Mississippi It depends on WHAT PART of Mississippi. A Big City like Jackson and especially the Gulf Coast Around Biloxi, with its New Orleans influences and high-rise, Vegas Clone Casinos are as free and as open as any other place in the US. Just so you don't frequent rural bars, like every state has, folks will be fine.
    Last edited by char GG; 05-17-2022 at 09:49 AM. Reason: You may want to save this comment for a PM

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    Monica, Marina,

    Please do not interpret my comment as denigrating Mississippi as a place to live or its people in general. That was not my intent and I did not mean for it to come across that way. I only meant that it is not a location that usually comes to mind in terms of crossdressing acceptance. California would seem to be a more accepting state for CDing but in reality you could go out en femme there and be attacked or heckled just like anywhere.

    There are nice people everywhere no matter what state you live in.

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    Perhaps Marina. I was in Jackson at Bar 3911. Although I had a really nice time, one thing I do not like is bars in Mississippi is they allow smoking inside. Other states in the south do not allow any smoking. I was kind of surprised by that. This club is literally what I refer to as remote - no hotels in that area so you can have a great time there, but forget staying at a hotel you can walk from. One day I will post the details of the 30 clubs I have visited. I do have my favorites.

    Sandi

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    Sounds like a splendid time was had by all, 😀. Under the right circumstance I will allow people to feel my breasts but the stipulation is that I get to feel theirs 😉. Keep on enjoying your life Darlin' and filling us in.

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    Right Gerri,

    Funny thing, I used to say I was dancing with women half my age, now I have to say I was dancing with women 1/3 my age. Crazy but I love it. It is so much fun.

    Sandi

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sandi Beech View Post
    Sometimes I think we are just a novelty. Who knows, but I bet our picture is on someone?s Facebook page.
    Sandi
    Recently a friend was out and she heard someone talking about someone that sounded like me. And she turned around and they were looking at a picture on one of their phones and it was me. She said that's Gen, and joined the conversation a little. I joke that anywhere I go I find people that know me. This time I wasn't even there and people still new me. Lol. It was a pic they took with me at a recent Halloween party. Who knows where I'm posted on the internet? Maybe that's why I get all those Middle Eastern men friend requests.

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    Genifer,

    That is pretty wild.

    I have had women take selfies with me before, but I did not know any of them. Plus, I was in cities far from home. Of course this was the first time anyone took a selfie with me topless ; )

    Sandi

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    Strangely, Sandi, I've had numerous men pat my bottom on the dance floor. But, men r very cautious about touching my breast plates. Even after I tell them it's ok.

    Some women on the other hand, r very forward! Many strange women have grabbed my boobs suddenly without asking!

    I used to grab theirs back asking them how they liked it? But, stopped doing that because I could tell they obviously did!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Interesting Doc,

    I am not surprised you have also experienced this as well since you have been to the clubbing scene - perhaps even more than I have. I am trying to catch up though ; )

    I am reluctant to touch anyone else other than when everyone was dancing and all the girls were slapping others on the rear. It is pretty easy to tell when it is OK to do that. If there is any doubt in my mind I would not touch another person. I have to admit the rules of the road for physical touch are tricky especially when dancing. You never want to offend anyone, but often there is a degree of physical touching such as holding on to another?s waist and most often it is innocent interaction. I am pretty careful.

    Sandi

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    I guess it all depends on the environment. I am very careful about touching other people in any way, unless they are expressly asking for it. However, I have been in settings where I was groped extensively, a few times to the point where it was a bit disturbing. Definitely a "touchy" subject.

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    I'm only speaking in general terms, not to anyone specific. In these times, it seems everyone should be very careful (particularly if they are men - even dressed as women) about touching someone else's supposedly private areas, even if they ask you to touch them- or they touch you. There are cameras everywhere and it just takes one person who takes the touching too far and cries "wolf".

    My hubby was at an LGBT bar when a woman came up to him, raised her shirt, and asked him if he wanted to touch her boobs. He had enough sense to just say "no".

    My point is, don't get trapped in the moment and find out later that you have to defend your actions. Probably best to keep your hands to yourselves.
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    I was at the bar/lounge in a hotel where the DC girls often hang out. I was with a lot of other girls like us, maybe 30 to 40, so I felt very safe.

    This is an old story, but I'm repeating it here.

    A group of 4 GGs came up to me and said, "Y'all look like you're having so much fun." I replied, "Yeah, we always have a good time here." Then she said, "How do you do it?" I was trying to figure out wat "it" was. Then, she pointed at my boobs, and I said, "Oh, you mean these."

    I said that they're silicone inserts, kind of like masticatory forms." She didn't run away, so I decided to have a little fun with them. I popped them out and asked her, "Do you want to try them on 'for size'?" She took them and started putting them in her bra. I had to correct her on putting them in. My forms are asymmetric and they have a "right" form and a "left" form. I just told her that she was putting them in on the wrong side.

    She put them in and asked her friends how they looked on her. Then girl #2 wanted to try them on and then girl #3. Girl #4 didn't want to try them on, but the other 3 girls kind of twisted her arm. Girls #1, #2 and #3 looked much better wearing my enhancements. Girl #4 didn't really need any enhancement. Mother nature had been very kind to her.

    After Girl#4, they gave me my forms back and I reinserted them.

    A fun time was had by all.

    I don't have any pics, and I don't recall if any of the girls took any. But, I do have a first-hand witness. A CD friend of mine had been standing right next to me and witnessed the whole "exchange". She was shocked, shocked at what had happened.
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    I hear what you are saying Char and totally agree.

    There was a video that went viral some time ago from a local bar where I live. A patron touched the rear end of his female bartender as she passed. She turned around and slammed him to the floor - all on security cam. I do not recall what else happened after the fact, but I have a feeling he learned something that day ; )

    Must have been one tough girl. Did he ever mess up.

    Sandi

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    Guys have gotten charged and convicted for sexual assault by grabbing some gal's butt. They have to register as a sex offender, the whole works. Now I don't go around recommending guys slap gal's butts, but charged as a sex offender seems a bit extreme.

    I have been know to give a gal a slap on the back side, but only if I know her.

    My buddy and his wife were over one evening. The wives were cooking dinner and we walked through. He slapped his wife's butt so I figured I should too. Bad move, she had my big, sharp chef's knife in her hand. Lets just say I didn't try that again! My buddy got a good laugh out of it and she wasn't pissed at me, but she let me now her butt was off limits! I just told her that he did it, and I figured it was the thing to do!

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    Dang Pumped.

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