The memorial weekend is a good weekend this year. My SO got an email about sale and finally I get an answer to why my bra's didn't work for SO. My type have been all push up bras, and "women just do NOT wear that type of bra anymore".
Ah, so the issue is not really the wearing of bra's but the protrusion and non-standard appearance.
Perhaps others getting "negative" feedback to bra wearing might narrow down the concern to type of bra and not just assume it's wearing a bra.
So got go-ahead to get a couple of standard bra's that are flatter, i.e., not filled. It will be interesting to see results. Oh, since the bra's were $20 off, I found a couple of dresses also with deep discounts.
The point I am trying to make, is do not assume some concern is automatically a dissatisfaction with CD, but may be more the style of CD and with more discussion a mutually acceptable style may be discovered.
Anyone have this type of experience, where they confused a concern with a negative, no-go situation, and future discussion opened a new avenue to explore?